Its been a while since i wrote my last post..been so busy with my life, been in so many thinking and decision making.. life's been tough but had manage to handle it well..
Since my husband came home.. life had been different at home.. were pretty happy and i feel comfortable with him around. I wish he can always be around and no matter what happen he will still stay beside me. I wish our marriage work till our last breath. But i can say that it cant be that perfect although were trying our best to balance our indifference's and as we constantly encounter misunderstanding or cultural differences still i wish we can do better in understanding each other.. i admit sometimes were both insensitive at each others feeling and we have different point of view in life.. he's a perfectionist while i just go on with the flow of life, i want to take life easy and enjoy it everyday i cant tell if it would be my last life anyway don't want to stress my life more that way.. i mean needing to just relax and enjoy each moment, maybe I'm a dreamer and I'm not in the way of living practical... i understand his points of view in terms of our journey in life and i admire him for being so knowledgeable in it. Although sometimes i would think that he wouldn't understand how a Filipino manage their own life. It depends on the culture and our beliefs, how we face problems on our own way, and our point of views in life.. Japanese also depends and had learned their way of living their life through their own culture and beliefs and we Filipino cannot comment on that i mean that's their belief and their way of living life. I respect that! Its not bad or wrong giving our own opinion yet we should also think of the probability that we might be going below the belt, we should also feel responsible in our opinion and be more sensitive.. that there can be people that might be sensitive with our opinion and for that we should also be careful. Well, my husband sometimes when we argue with family members attitude, he would always say that he cant understand my family's character or way of thinking.. how we manage to live it as it is right now, why they would be insensitive towards him, well i can say that we cant change peoples character when they acquire it since birth.. its also hard for me to explain it in his language and he couldn't understand more when i would try to explain it. I mean we cant please everybody and vise versa. You might believe that you need to understand another to love them. The truth is you need to love them to understand them... that understanding comes from love!
God bless you all! Have a nice day...c",)
