December 7, 2017

Before you argue put yourself first into their perspective.

Life is all a matter of perspective and it all depends on the angle you're looking at it from. Even when two people narrate the same story, both will do it in different ways, which shows that every individual has his/her own view. Sometimes, the hardest thing in the world for any person is to let go of your own perspective and try and see someone else's view. However, people who are capable of doing that come out as a bit more stable as it is easy for them to re-evaluate and appreciate their life by looking at someone else's view of it. Every once in a while you should turn things upside down and look at a situation from somebody else's perspective. It is always good to try and see things differently.
Sometimes it is about the two choices life gives every person; either you sit, sulk and dwell on how unfair life is to you, or you could try and figure out how to make the bad situation work in your favor. Both characters have their own priorities and are happy leading life in their own way. There is no right or wrong point of view. Each person is different and so are their choices, opinions, and decisions. We must learn to respect individuality. We all like to run away from the reality if it does not adhere to what we want in life or how we look at it. People are known to turn a blind eye or a deaf ear towards the truth just because it is harsh and doesn't match their outlook.  It's easy to lose yourself in a pack of millions and follow the path frequently taken. But remember, only if you change how you see yourself, you will be able to change how the world sees you. You may not feel very comfortable when you try to see things from a different perspective, but you have to be on the other side to truly feel what someone else may be going through. Put six people in front of one thing and they will have six different interpretations of that thing. Your interpretation will also change with a change in angle, direction, or position. What would happen if a child takes on the responsibility of the entire household? Will the tiny toddler have an option of being carefree and not worried at all about his/her loved ones? No, right? The battle between the heart and the mind can never be won. Change the way you deal with an object and you could change the entire situation.


November 26, 2017

The reasons why you should not break-up even if your not inlove.

People with solid relationships struggle in their marriages. Many of the problems come from us making poor choices like not making time for our spouses and a lack of intimacy. There are a few essential ingredients to keep a marriage going. Things like hard work, communication and support goes a long way. But maybe you've done all the right things and are falling out of love with your partner. Or maybe your spouse told you that they are not in love anymore. Does this mean the marriage is over or that you should get a divorce? It is natural to think along those lines. If you believe that the love is gone in your relationship, it doesn't need to be a death sentence for your marriage. Here are the reasons that you should not end a relationship because you believe that the love is gone. First, They Make You a Better Person. Sometimes we get stuck in our lives and this includes our relationship. A bond will make you a better person or make you a worse person. Take a moment to see if the person you are with still brings out the best in you. If you have learned to be a better fighter, a better friend, a better parent or a better neighbor, there is value here. If you guys can still laugh after a fight and keep it civil--keep the relationship going and don't give up. There is something there that is significant and merits saving.  Second, Don't Trust Your Feelings. Feelings are up and feelings are occasionally down. Welcome to life, friend. The same holds true in your marriage. Sometimes you want to be with them and sometimes you want to leave the country for more space. Even then, the miles are not enough. The next moment you are sending loving texts their way. You get the picture. Don't go by your feelings to conclude if you are in love or not. Feelings will lie to you and they will lead you astray. You really can't gauge a relationship by this. Feelings are fickle, so beware on how to move onward. Third, They are Your Go-To Person. If you are going through a tough time, who is the person you go to first? If it is your spouse, obviously there is something there. A healthy relationship is based on a mutual give and take. If you both rely on each other--they're still the first person in your life for support. People search high and low for a person that will be strong and dependable. If you are pissed off at them, it clouds your thinking of how you seemingly do love them. When the dust settles, who are you going to reach out to? If it is your spouse, you have the answer to any lingering doubts. Fourth, You Fight Fair. You are probably fighting as you read this. However, if you can fight fair and without feeling disrespected, unloved or feel that you are in danger because of tempers flying--you guys are better than most couples. If you have the discipline to walk away to cool down and to take a breather, that is a great indicator that you have evolved as a couple. Most fights are not productive. But if you are making headway and you are both hearing each other out, you are making progress. That is half the battle as many times people will draw fights out for lengthy periods of time. Fifth, You Still Communicate. Maybe communication is not the problem, it is how you communicate. There will be times when you don't want to deal with them or they are not listening. This is not an anomaly. People become tired, are working and sometimes don't have a lot to offer. Poor communication is usually the culprit. There could be one who is passive aggressive and doesn't know how to communicate and one who is always communicating but in the wrong way. We just have to find a happy medium where we can get on the same page and establish better communication skills. And last but not the least, You Still Have Feelings for Them. If you search your heart, you know that there is still a spark for your spouse. There was just a disconnection along the way. This doesn't mean you don't love each other or that you are not compatible, it might be a lack of intimacy. You both might need to seek counseling to figure out what happened. The marriage could be renewed as you work through some things. For example, if you are feeling bored in your relationship, start working towards changing it and ask the therapist for advice. A marriage is a commitment, so don't discount or be afraid to ask for help. People fall in and out of love. That is true. But before you claim that you have no love for them, think for a moment before making the wrong choice. In a world that tells us to go with our feelings all the time, we need to become more patient when making the larger decisions when it comes to our marriage.


November 21, 2017

Transition

I have loved. I have lost and I have changed. It has been difficult but I have learned so much from it. I have learned that people can hurt you so deeply and not even worry about you. I learned that good people can change in a minute when their hearts have been broken. I’ve met great people, but mean people as well. But the most important thing I have learned is that every person in this world is strong enough to let go . People come and go and that’s life! The most important thing is to stand up and realize that you deserve something better than a person who gives up on you.
I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what degrades me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal.
This is the part of my life where I silently remove myself from anyone who hurts me more than they love me, drains me more than they replenish me, brings me more stress than they do peace, and tries to stunt my growth rather than clap for it. I think that I’ve done more than enough talking and trying to make things work with certain people…I’m done.
At the end of life, what really matters is not what we bought, but what we built; not what we got, but what we shared; not our competence, but our character; and not our success, but our significance. Live a life that matters. Live a life with those who are true and really care for you.


November 20, 2017

"She"

I can tell you a lot about her. She’s someone with a huge heart. She will bend over backwards and fold herself in half helping out someone if she can do anything. Her loyalty to the ones that mean something to her is unheard of nowadays. She smiles like she’s never been hurt, and if you didn’t know her, you wouldn’t ever imagine her to ever be hurt. But it happens, a lot more than anyone realizes. She’s really fragile, and it takes very little for her to be hurt, as she takes everything to heart. I’m not surprised though if you don’t know a lot though, because she’s really cautious and her letting someone close to her is a rare thing to happen. There are demons inside her that she’s constantly in a fight with. And she’s a lot worse to herself than anything that could be said to her. Her past is not one of her favorite subjects. She wouldn’t expect anyone to notice her or to listen to the things she has to say that aren’t necessary to be said. But I’m telling you, she’s so worth it all, she’s nothing you’d ever expect, and you’ll feel alive in a way that you’ve never have with her in your life.
She doesn’t need expensive gifts. She doesn’t need expensive dinners. I mean sure all of those things would be nice but, all she really needs is you. She needs your listening ear when she is ready to vent. She needs your shoulder to cry on when life gets hard on her. She needs your words of encouragement when she is getting ready to pursue her dreams. She needs to be able to feel safe around you, and know that you have her best interest when it comes to her heart. And if it’s taking her a while to let you in, she isn’t trying to punish you. She just doesn’t want to repeat making the same mistakes she has made in the past of giving a man her all, just to find out that he couldn’t match her effort. Love her genuinely. Love her patiently. Love her passionately. And last but not least, love her consistently and in return, she will love you like you have never been loved before.
To her “I love you” means that she accept you for the person that you are, and that she do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that she will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things she want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that she know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge her for who she is. It means that she care enough to fight for what both of you have and that she love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for her. That's all she needed and ever wanted.


October 27, 2017

Keeping the love alive

Finally, my heart jumps in happiness. I could finally loose my tension slowly now that the king of my heart is returning to what we were before. Im drowning in this feeling of intense love and care he is showing me. Truly action speaks louder than words. I just cant get enough of his everyday gesture in showing how he cant live without my love and care too. I feel like we are lovers again..
Thank you Lord for answering my  prayers. Truly you listen to the prayer of righteous. I know that you will never forsake me because i am your child. My faith is deeper in your promised. I feel grateful for slowly making his heart and mind clearer against immoral acts. Im thankful that he is choosing to do what is right and follow his heart. Im thankful that he gets his realization right on time. Its your perfect timing. All this troubles were going through on our basic needs were just minor problems that makes us grow stronger in faith with each other. Together we are facing the same direction. We are working on our long term goal.. Keeping everyone in our small family happy and enjoy what we have.
I thank you my loving husband for showing me that there is light at the end of darkness. The rainbow comes after the storm. Let us always be thankful and grateful to God for giving our marriage a chance and for providing our every needs. Im contented in whatever you can give us.. Im not asking for more. You are enough for me and our kids. I love you my dear husband, my forever partner and my other half. My life is not complete without you. I promise to be by your side no matter how old we get and when you're weak i will be your strength. I will take care of you just like how you are taking care of us right now. May God blessed you wisdom and knowledge in every decision you will make. Continue to be good and you'll be rewarded in no time. Its God's promised.


September 18, 2017

Unspoken

There's so many things i want to say. Words that are left unsaid because of fear of being misunderstood and rejection. But its difficult to sustain the feeling of wanting to be heard. Despite all the worry and anxiety i feel the need to write it down. Somehow i want to share with you who can relate to my deepest emotion. If where on the same boat, i hope we can both find the courage to express ourselves. Here goes my situation... Being an open minded person i easily forgive and forget all the bad things that happen and how someone treated me unjustly. I mean treated me not fairly. Sometimes i feel my kindness is being abused. And it hurts the most when that someone who does is the person whom you give your whole life and trust with all your heart. When all the while i thought he is being honest and being a good person doing his responsibilities well but in between those mixed feelings and gestures he is showing me theres still this gap of unpleasant and sometimes can be disappointing because i felt disrespected. And that my existence doesn't seem to matter. I feel out of his decisions specially when it comes to financial matters. He would make decisions and tell me just after and my rights to our supposed to be deciding in partnership manner is being act by him solely. Its just not right and i cant fully appreciate that seemed like being honest manner but its already a late reply on me. Its like he is not giving me a chance to agree or disagree, its all on his. I dont feel like a partner in his life.😢😩 The saddest part of being kind and understanding always. I feel like im just his ego bouncing hard drive. Where he keeps all his sentiments and lifes difficult moments. But i dont complain to be the one to catch all of those. Despite the situation, i honestly appreciate his effort in working things out, fixing the broken pieces that has been shattered. And his being open to me about his dealings with the past and ongoing trouble in our life, a threat in our marriage. I completely believe that he wants to make thing better for our family. And that he realized his faults. Maybe its true that love is blind. I just hope and i pray everyday of my life that he sees me deeper in the core of my heart. How i wanted to be treated with true love, care and understanding. And take me in his every decision he has to make that affects specially our marriage and our family. Hoping to achieved our long term goal. For better or for worst, till death do us apart. We stay together at each others arms. Only death can separate me from you. A promised i make in the name of our children. Forever i will love you my love.


August 2, 2017

Move-on

The healthy and right kind of love is when two people inspire and uplift each other to become their better selves. If it doesn't serve you its purpose, then its not right for you. Wake up and smell the coffee! Don't settle for minimal respect and effort. Why would you  suffer for someone who doesnt want to be with you? Recognise that we have the power to everything we give life to? If you would stop focusing on wanting love from this person, this agony will end. Stop hoping if he/she is in love with you, it's just hoping. Instead start going out with people who shows love to you and start making choices in that possible direction. Do more of what makes you happy and less of what puts you in misery. Give meaning to your choices. And soon you can recognise that love is something to want to, than for something that doesn't reciprocate. And you will give happiness to those who also ask for you in their life instead. That's 2 way then it will feel fun. Only settle for people who shows you love for who you are. Do things that makes you happy, do things you desire and let you shine through. You need to be beautiful inside out. Be big, bold & beautiful, and believe it. Because if you don't, people will think anything anyways. So just be! haha. If you think your life don't have enough of something, go do it or add it. Like love a furry pet, eat good food, if you enjoy cooking do more of it. So more of what makes you happy. Hang around friends who believe in you and uplift you. That's loving yourself. Don't hold the useless thought of 'WHY HE/SHE DONT LOVE ME'. That's not loving yourself, that's beating yourself up, for ~ that person who's not worth your effort to feel bad for. A lot of people need your love in this world... like...the poorer people. Give them more love, think more of them, and less of him. Haha!
Never get attach to something or someone. Coz' once it's taken away, you will be emotionally drained out. You need to love yourself. If u cannot even love yourself, how can someone else love you. You should also be happy with yourself for being what you are. No matter how you look. Coz' true beauty of a person is based on character, it's skin deep rooted in the core of our hearts. So don't chase or try too hard. Let it come naturally. The longer the wait, the sweeter it  will be. Be happy and stay strong and healthy. Someone is definitely waiting for that special someone (which is you). It probably is not the time yet. Exercise patience. Love is reciprocal in nature....you dont beg to love or to be loved, for whatever is obtained through begging has to be sustained with begging.....so stop chasing shadows!!...i know how it feels to love and not to be loved in return...life is too short to spend time around people who suck the happiness out from you....my advice is that you let go of that person, if he/she comes back his/she's yours, but if he/she doesn't then dont act desperate just know this person was never yours. Love is a conscious feeling two people embark in and strive to grow together in understanding, trust, empathy and commitment, always fighting to make the love work together. Anything besides that is desperation and its not healthy for you!!!

Here.. this same thing happened to a student of my aunt. She came to my aunt and said "teacher I can't study for this very important exam I'm facing because I'm in love. I can't stop thinking about him, sort of crazy.. but I need to pass this exam because this crush will go away but if I fail my exam I wont get it right ever again. Plus he has a girlfriend "

So my aunts advice to her was this. Every "likable" thing there is something to dislike.. every "not very likable " thing there is a side to it which is very likable. It's our responsibility to teach our brains how to see these two sides balanced and win life.. so now you need to see the problems of this crush..because it's never gonna happen between you two. Write down all the reasons why you should forget about him. Write this down and come meet me the next day.

So the girl went home and wrote about it.. she did this until she is satisfied and ultimately defeated that unnecessary pressure and even passed the exam with flying colors.

So write down why you need to stop chasing and hoping for someone who's never yours and why it is not practical. And just move-on.🤔

🤗😇 Goodluck and God bless you. Pray for strength in overcoming all that is not good and not healthy for you. Pull yourself together and be a better version of yourself.

That's all!
Have an awesome week 😀😀

#MyOpinion_MyRights
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July 31, 2017

Marriage between a couple

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband... a wife who sees all the bad side of the husband vs a husband who hears all the negative things about his wife. To be happily married, the wife must first accept the husband's shortcomings and the husband should be patient with wife's shortfall. This is how me and my husband get through our 12 years of having each other. But in some cases no one is really sure of the future ahead of you. If you encounter an accident or sickness that can take your life short and leaved your partner eventually in this world. Its a natural separation. Inspite of this natural catastrophic events, there are also certain events that can be prevented, planning is the key to get a successful marriage. It also takes two to tango. Love is not all about feelings, it is a decision. It is natural that the spark we feel at the start will disappear as time goes by. That's where the decision play its role whether to pursue the relationship or end it up. The decision is yours. If your love was not strong enough to stand the test of time. If you want to break free then you should frankly tell the other person. Maybe he/she will be hurt but eventually they can move on. People are meant to fall in love, fall out of love & fall in love again until we meet someone meant for us or someone we want to spend the rest of our life. Be fair to him/her & to your very self. There's no easy way to break somebody's heart specially if he/she is a good person. But it is more painful to go on in a relationship where we can't be happy anymore. Maybe you need a break & find yourself. You can tell him/her about it & if he/she understand you he/she will let you go. Maybe you are burned out with your relationship. And don't you think this is not important because we are indeed struggling. Sometimes all we need in a relationship is a time apart. Who knows when we get back to each other we are a whole person again. Find a solution to your problem so both of you can move on. Be honest to yourself & to him/her. Marriage is a commitment. If you cant take full responsibility with your partner then maybe getting married is not an option for you. Its better to live single and its best that you cant be hurt and get anyone hurt right? But then again things to decide are different if it will involved the children in between your marriage.


July 18, 2017

Change is coming deep inside




So sweet love seemed that April morn, when first we kissed beside the thorn. So strangely sweet, it was not strange. We thought that love could never change. But u had changed the way you treated me before. How stupid i seemed to be. Crying silently in this dark alley. Wont u come and hold me tight tonight? Hug me from behind and kiss me passionately. Whisper in my ear the words i longed to hear you say everyday, for it gives me the will to live my life much longer so we can grow old together. How hopeless i feel to think that you would fulfill my wishes. It may be just my fantasy. You may not utter those words until my last breath. It gives me so much pain when you treat me cold as ice. Cant you feel this pain im feeling inside? Are you that insensitive of my needs? Time gets me tired... As it keeps on going and ticking the more i feel so damn wasted. If the shoe doesn't fit, must we change the foot? All i can say is that we must value each other even when time continue ticking. Our only security is our ability to change. Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.

June 23, 2017

Self-pity

I dont know why im feeling this way. Am i just being pathetic? But this feeling is killing me softly.. I dont want to argue about how im feeling anymore.. And im afraid to feel so much rejected. Im keeping all this pain of feeling unloved by the man i give my whole life with but i still choose to continue the journey beside him. Although he is here, present in body and in mind but his heart for me is nowhere to find he only gives his genuine love to our kids and it makes me feel unworthy to be his wife. I mean if he dont love me anymore why would he still keep me and suffer from the happiness he can get from someone he wanted to be with. Wouldn't he be wasting his time? I feel like im a burden in his shoulder that is pulling him from his own happiness.. And it makes me feel bad, i dont want to be the reason of someone's happiness to get ruin. I love him so much and im willing to do the sacrifice if thats what he would ask. Im not feeling really secured even if the love and care he is showing me is for real or just for the sake of our kids. I could hardly trust him again after his cheating, even if he is saying he is just being her friend now and nothing more, i still dont feel secured. He had done it once, and he can do it again if he wanted to. And i dont feel any assurance from him that he wont cheat on me again. He dont even reply on my words of love and adoration just to make me feel at ease and more secure. He seemed to be so cold and his heart is shut towards me. He is wearing a poker face. And it makes me feel more lonely, that im literally feeling cold all over my body. It affects my health and my sanity. I feel like im losing my self. That im dying inside little by little. All i need for as cure is his warm love, his true genuine love just like before. I missed him when we were true to each other.. When we both genuinely give our love for each other. My mind and body is suffering from this heart break trauma and his unknown emotional and psychological abuse towards me. He isnt aware that everything i wish to hear from him are the words that could help me go on with my life and would probably make me feel better. I hope and pray he would be sensitive enough to know my needs. Its his love thats all i ever wanted. I need to hear, to feel, and to see that genuine love from him. It will definitely bring back my life in this moment.


May 6, 2017

About Love

What is the one emotion that has everyone mystified? What is the one emotion that has started as many wars as it has ended? What emotion has had more plays, songs, and stories written about it than anything else?
It's called Love, that one emotion that makes enemies into friends and friends into enemies. So many legends surround this emotion, from the goddess Athena and Helen of Troy to Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet.
Love comes in so many different levels, that it doesn't appear to be the same emotion at all, but it is. There is so much to love, that it will be hard to put into this simple essay. It can tear people apart and make us do irrational things to bringing together entire nations. What can this emotion not do? It's hard to tell, but there is a lot it can.
This emotion, bring tears to our eyes when something happens to our family members, friends, and even pets. When we feel love ripped from us, as in death or being spurned by another, we do things we wouldn't normally do, such as go on violent rampages, or mourn to the extent that our loved ones have to watch us constantly to make sure we don't try anything like suicide. Some can move on, always remembering the lost loved one after a while, but others can not let go. These are the ones that need our love and support the most.
There are so many levels to love, that I can only express a few of them here. These are the ones we see most in life. Friendship starts this list off. Yes, it doesn't seem like it, but we do feel love towards our friends, this is what helps us get along so well, and why we miss them when we don't see our friends for a long time. It's also why we hold certain friends over others no matter what happens. Sometimes, the bond between friends deepens to the point where a stronger bond of love is made, making them family.
Another level of love, are for our siblings and other family members. Even though we do things to our family members, and sometimes we don't like some of our family, that bond is still there. It's this family bond level of love that brought about the phrase, blood is thicker than water. We will do things for our brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, and children before we would even consider doing them for anyone else. Many wars have been started because of this family level, brother avenging brother or father, father protecting his wife and children, or even vice versa. This simple family bond can even extend to include our pets, amazingly enough, and that is a good thing.
A third level to love, is the bond that brings man and woman together. This level is among the strongest of them all. It is this level of love that has brought together kingdoms into nations in the past, and ended many great wars. It's is also for the love of a woman that has started a few of our well-known wars, like the Trojan Wars of ancient times. It's brought together families that have argued for years and years, such as in the Shakespearean play, Romeo and Juliet. Even though the two mentioned killed themselves in the end, it still brought their families together.
The last mentionable level of love is that bond between a mother and her children. There is no stronger, nor will there ever be. This bond starts from the very first tiny fluttering of movement and never ends, even after death of the child. A mother protects her children in the name of love, and directs them through life using it as the example to follow. Well, at least it should be. It's because of her children a mother will work at a job she hates, just to make sure they have everything they could ever want or need.
The phrase, love makes the world go round is very true. It's is our driving force, for what ever reason it may be. Poems, plays, and legends can only briefly touch the true meaning of love. We can only feel what that meaning is, and express it in ways only we can understand towards another. The true question we should be asking is not, what is life?, but what is love?
What is love? I don't know, but I'll do what I can to express it to my son, my husband, my family and friends, and to every single pet I have or ever will own in the best possible way that I can.
Lastly, love is life. Without it we cant live. If there is none we are then a walking dead. 😆😆😆😜🤗


January 18, 2017

Will love ever live again?

Losing someone who is still physically alive but not physically together with you.

I used to say that divorce is like being in love with a ghost, he/she is alive for someone else but not for you.

Today I want to introduce you to a truth.

One that I believe is more real for better or for worse than the one that we are humanly aware of.

The answer to ‘will that love ever live again’ is always a yes. Whether it is here in this time and space experience or in another one, the answer is always yes.

And if you ask this question.

"What if you still hold the love but they do not."

Holding love for someone is an experience that is far more complex than we can see.

One of the reasons why separations are so impossible and difficult it is because of something called quantum entanglement.

The word entanglement in quantum physics refers to particles that can be intimately linked to each other even if separated by space, time and everything you can imagine.

Whatever happens to one particle in one location will influence the other.

When there is unity and then a separation, the particles can never be the same as they once were.

They have been forever entangled.

They have been forever defined by each other. Even in part.

You are still interacting with the person you are separated from via something called spooky action at a distance. Einstein said that particles such as electrons can also become ‘entangled’ no matter how far apart they are!

This is why it is so hard to truly ever separate with someone we loved or still love.

For you, this connection with him/her is operating outside of time and space.

It is illogical and impractical through our human eyes.

But if we look at it from a quantum view we would see this connection that does not break no matter what the physical world looks like.

And if you pay attention you will actually start to notice a lot of correlations between the two of you.

The entanglement of love will create an invisible interaction even if you or him/her wish for it to be different. There is nothing anyone can do about it.

You are connected and intimately linked to each other even if separated by many lifetimes.

Our interactions with one another are internal, energetic and in a subatomic level through a unifying field.

How so?

Here is a breakdown of how this happens.

The whole universe is made up of one energy source.

This energy is a part of everything.

Your thoughts, your particles were joined and when they separated they were connected beyond a physical form. 

Your nervous system was beating in alignment with his/her when you were together and still does now.

If only we could find a way to see this invisible entanglement we would notice that distance, separation and disconnection does not change the fact that you are connected.

Now, I know that this does not help with the physical feeling of loving someone who is not with you every day. And it doesn’t make the human separation any easier to deal with just because you now know that you are forever entangled with him. But what it does do is give an awareness to the fact that there is never any real separation.

There is never a true goodbye. If we can see beyond this physical form or even this one life, then we will see that it has always been ‘until we meet again.’

For now and for this moment know that your love for each other still exists beyond disagreements, beyond human decisions it lives on and on.

And if somehow we were able to be happy with knowing this then we would also find the strength and courage to fall in love again with someone else creating a new entanglement across the universe. After all we are here to love more than once or twice.

With unlimited entanglement to you. So keep on loving. Its the ultimate happiness we can ever have.. Loving and being loved.


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First of all I would like to apologized for not updating my blog in this website. Been busy this past year 2021 along with this pandemic and...