Before you argue put yourself first into their perspective.

Life is all a matter of perspective and it all depends on the angle you're looking at it from. Even when two people narrate the same story, both will do it in different ways, which shows that every individual has his/her own view. Sometimes, the hardest thing in the world for any person is to let go of your own perspective and try and see someone else's view. However, people who are capable of doing that come out as a bit more stable as it is easy for them to re-evaluate and appreciate their life by looking at someone else's view of it. Every once in a while you should turn things upside down and look at a situation from somebody else's perspective. It is always good to try and see things differently.
Sometimes it is about the two choices life gives every person; either you sit, sulk and dwell on how unfair life is to you, or you could try and figure out how to make the bad situation work in your favor. Both characters have their own priorities and are happy leading life in their own way. There is no right or wrong point of view. Each person is different and so are their choices, opinions, and decisions. We must learn to respect individuality. We all like to run away from the reality if it does not adhere to what we want in life or how we look at it. People are known to turn a blind eye or a deaf ear towards the truth just because it is harsh and doesn't match their outlook.  It's easy to lose yourself in a pack of millions and follow the path frequently taken. But remember, only if you change how you see yourself, you will be able to change how the world sees you. You may not feel very comfortable when you try to see things from a different perspective, but you have to be on the other side to truly feel what someone else may be going through. Put six people in front of one thing and they will have six different interpretations of that thing. Your interpretation will also change with a change in angle, direction, or position. What would happen if a child takes on the responsibility of the entire household? Will the tiny toddler have an option of being carefree and not worried at all about his/her loved ones? No, right? The battle between the heart and the mind can never be won. Change the way you deal with an object and you could change the entire situation.