The healthy and right kind of love is when two people inspire and uplift each other to become their better selves. If it doesn't serve you its purpose, then its not right for you. Wake up and smell the coffee! Don't settle for minimal respect and effort. Why would you suffer for someone who doesnt want to be with you? Recognise that we have the power to everything we give life to? If you would stop focusing on wanting love from this person, this agony will end. Stop hoping if he/she is in love with you, it's just hoping. Instead start going out with people who shows love to you and start making choices in that possible direction. Do more of what makes you happy and less of what puts you in misery. Give meaning to your choices. And soon you can recognise that love is something to want to, than for something that doesn't reciprocate. And you will give happiness to those who also ask for you in their life instead. That's 2 way then it will feel fun. Only settle for people who shows you love for who you are. Do things that makes you happy, do things you desire and let you shine through. You need to be beautiful inside out. Be big, bold & beautiful, and believe it. Because if you don't, people will think anything anyways. So just be! haha. If you think your life don't have enough of something, go do it or add it. Like love a furry pet, eat good food, if you enjoy cooking do more of it. So more of what makes you happy. Hang around friends who believe in you and uplift you. That's loving yourself. Don't hold the useless thought of 'WHY HE/SHE DONT LOVE ME'. That's not loving yourself, that's beating yourself up, for ~ that person who's not worth your effort to feel bad for. A lot of people need your love in this world... like...the poorer people. Give them more love, think more of them, and less of him. Haha!
Never get attach to something or someone. Coz' once it's taken away, you will be emotionally drained out. You need to love yourself. If u cannot even love yourself, how can someone else love you. You should also be happy with yourself for being what you are. No matter how you look. Coz' true beauty of a person is based on character, it's skin deep rooted in the core of our hearts. So don't chase or try too hard. Let it come naturally. The longer the wait, the sweeter it will be. Be happy and stay strong and healthy. Someone is definitely waiting for that special someone (which is you). It probably is not the time yet. Exercise patience. Love is reciprocal in nature....you dont beg to love or to be loved, for whatever is obtained through begging has to be sustained with begging.....so stop chasing shadows!!...i know how it feels to love and not to be loved in return...life is too short to spend time around people who suck the happiness out from you....my advice is that you let go of that person, if he/she comes back his/she's yours, but if he/she doesn't then dont act desperate just know this person was never yours. Love is a conscious feeling two people embark in and strive to grow together in understanding, trust, empathy and commitment, always fighting to make the love work together. Anything besides that is desperation and its not healthy for you!!!
Here.. this same thing happened to a student of my aunt. She came to my aunt and said "teacher I can't study for this very important exam I'm facing because I'm in love. I can't stop thinking about him, sort of crazy.. but I need to pass this exam because this crush will go away but if I fail my exam I wont get it right ever again. Plus he has a girlfriend "
So my aunts advice to her was this. Every "likable" thing there is something to dislike.. every "not very likable " thing there is a side to it which is very likable. It's our responsibility to teach our brains how to see these two sides balanced and win life.. so now you need to see the problems of this crush..because it's never gonna happen between you two. Write down all the reasons why you should forget about him. Write this down and come meet me the next day.
So the girl went home and wrote about it.. she did this until she is satisfied and ultimately defeated that unnecessary pressure and even passed the exam with flying colors.
So write down why you need to stop chasing and hoping for someone who's never yours and why it is not practical. And just move-on.🤔
🤗😇 Goodluck and God bless you. Pray for strength in overcoming all that is not good and not healthy for you. Pull yourself together and be a better version of yourself.
That's all!
Have an awesome week 😀😀
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