Freedom to love

Been thinking about freedom as a person. Despite our status in the society, gender, age, single or married, being a parent, a sibling, being a child or adult. Inspite of all the responsibilities we have in our family,  to others and to our self. We can still live freely and be happy. I guess it all matters in the mind.

For example, being in love with your other half or someone you love so dearly that feeling makes you happy already. For me love is given unconditionally. If you love someone you will accept him/her for all that he/she is without any judgement. We keep an open mind towards this certain person and we accept the flaws on his/her character. For me, its not the things that you do or did that makes me love you, its because i love you for who you are. So no matter what you do or what you did in the past are all accepted and forgiven. Anyone can make mistakes, even i make mistakes but the point is its the person itself that you love and not the things he/she did or doing.

When someone truly loves you and they know what you deserved they will be the one to adjust on you and change whatever hinders their relationship towards you. They will changed themselves on their own and its not you who need to make them changed themselves. They will do what makes you really happy because they love you more than they can afford not to loose you. Same goes with what you can do to make your love one happy. Loving is not a sacrifice it is in the giving of love we tend to misinterpret that love is a sacrifice because you are sacrificing your own happiness. Well that is not really love, if you are not happy for your self then how can you show it? How can you give it? How can you truly and genuinely love? Love is a feeling that gives us freedom. To choose our decisions, our partners to be, our life to live, and the journey we want to go.

When there is love, there is life. And life should be live with freedom. Its God-given gift to everyone. So lets live life with love.